“Always remember others may hate you but those who hate you don't win unless you hate yourself. And then you destroy yourself”

After long break I am back to my own writing………….I come across above thought on one book and my mind started thinking on this. In first glance it may look like saying from some great philosopher and we found it little difficult to apply in our life. Other end we may also feel that is it really a great thought to discuss……..it may it may not be but for me I find it important to think on so here I am with my view and will appreciate your comment & view on this.

I saw many people hate own-self without any particular reason…….they feel that way is just a reflections of others behavior…do you think it’s justice to our oneself…NO a big NO! It happens because we forgive other’s mistakes but we would be hard on our own mistakes. It is difficult for us to forgive ourself and we curse ourself for that.

I think we should love and take our mistakes easy….i don’t mean we are allow to repeat mistakes but we should be take is easy if something wrong done by us.

Sometimes people just spent their life in cursing their self…..why?? Why should we carry those burden on our solder ad destroy our life. One who hates us will win if we hate ourself too, it’s in our hand to behave in such a strong way that no one can destroy us. Morally it’s right to learn from mistakes but Never ever hate our-self.

I think I wrote something confusing for many of my I-lander, if so pardon me my last word for all is “My Dear friend Love your ownself then only you can love others”